If the pairs do not suit you

 If the pairs you find or prospects that you think of do not suit you but instead cause stomach pain already by thinking of them or you end too much in arguments with them, they are propably of a wrong type and you should consider dates from other countries. There are lits of dating sites in thd knternet, some of continents and some of countries. Typical to them is that they have a certain view of how to associate, how to luve, which values emphasize, etc. Try to find the country or the countrues that suit you well and have a positive effect on your lufe. At the datibg site there also similarly inclined peoole from other countries, so you do not necessarily need to choosd jyst that coubtry even though you will get lits of inflyencies from ut to your lufe.